Death Doula Spiritual Guide Healer
Portland, Oregon
You’re here because you — or someone you love — is moving through one of life’s most sacred thresholds.
Death can be a very scary subject to talk about. I am here to help.
Whether you’re facing your own death, caring for a loved one who is dying, or grieving a life that no longer looks the same — this moment is tender, real, and deserving of gentle support.
I’m Pamela, a Death Doula in Portland, Oregon, here to walk with you through the unknown.
With loving presence, spiritual grounding, and practical guidance, I offer companionship and space for emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual healing.
Together, we move at the pace of your truth — with compassionate curiosity and loving awareness as our guides.
Wherever you are, I am here.
You are not alone.
As a death doula, I provide a safe, non-judgmental container, compassionate companionship, and guidance for individuals navigating life’s hard transitions.
I’ll help you access the tools already inside you to face these transitions with loving awareness and compassionate curiosity. I offer gentle support as you take each step toward peace, healing, and self-love
You may be sitting beside someone you love as they are dying — unsure what to say, how to help, or if you’re doing this right.
You may be the one who’s been given a diagnosis, swimming in grief, fear, or unfinished dreams.
Or you may just feel lost. Stuck between what was and what’s next. Not sure how to move forward. Tired. Alone.
In these threshold moments, what you need most is someone who can sit beside you — without needing to fix, explain, or rush you. Someone who sees your strength, your tenderness, your questions. Someone who holds space for it all with compassionate curiosity and loving awareness.
When Life Brings You to the Edge
I am that someone.
A death doula.
I walk with you in life, in death, and in the sacred in-between.
Why People Seek a Death Doula
Life has a way of bringing us to the edge — sometimes gently, often not.
Many people come to this work in one of these tender moments:
A loved one is dying, and you want to know what is okay — to say, to feel, to do. You long for reassurance that your presence is enough.
You’ve received a life-limiting diagnosis and are feeling overwhelmed with shock, regret, grief, or guilt about leaving others behind.
You are a caregiver carrying exhaustion, anticipatory grief, and the weight of not knowing how to “do this right.”
You feel stuck or lost in your life — unsure how to move forward, burdened by guilt or unworthiness, disconnected from meaning, identity, or peace.
What you are seeking is not just answers.
You are seeking companionship, clarity, and permission — to feel what you feel, to ask the unspoken questions, and to be met without judgment.
As a death doula I offer:
Guidance and presence at the end of life — whether days or months before death, offering emotional, spiritual, and practical support
Reassurance and gentle witnessing — affirming that what you feel is human, that love is enough, and that you are not alone
Support for legacy and meaning-making — holding space for reflection, storytelling, and honoring what matters most
Care through grief and after-death integration — helping you find footing again, one breath and one memory at a time
This is sacred work.
It is human work.
And you don’t have to do it alone.